… Read the restRapper and actor T.I. said in a podcast interview that aired Tuesday that he goes with his 18-year-old daughter to the gynecologist every year to “check her hymen” and make sure it’s “still intact.”
In an interview with Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham on Ladies Like Us, T.I. talked about his parenting style, among other topics. When asked about whether he’s had the “sex talk” with his daughters, he pointed to his approach with his eldest daughter, 18-year-old Deyjah Harris, who’s in her first year of college.
“Not only have we had the conversation. We have yearly trips to the gynecologist to check her hymen,” T.I. said. “Yes, I go with her.”
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Posts Tagged ‘ Misogyny ’
His parenting style
Nov 6th, 2019 11:34 am | By Ophelia BensonNot actually glad to help
Sep 18th, 2019 4:16 pm | By Ophelia BensonMassive kudos to @samsmith, who by coming out will help other non-binary people who have to confront the ignorance and bigotry of others.
The people who get angry at *pronouns* are exactly the same who call the left always offended/”triggered” snowflakes.
Everyone is non-binary, Owen. I’m non-binary. Every feminist is non-binary, because we don’t adhere to sexist gender stereotypes. So are you going to congratulate us too?
OJ:
No you’re not, glad to help!
Now just a god damn minute. If the rule is that people are what they say they are, where does he get off replying that way?
Furthermore, how does he think he knows … Read the rest
The wider conditions of vulnerability
Apr 10th, 2019 12:56 pm | By Ophelia BensonAnti-lesbian discrimination at LGBT Facebook group for philosophers
Two lesbian philosophers–Holly Lawford-Smith and Louise Moody–are removed from the group by Rebecca Kukla (Georgetown) after merely mentioning philosopher Kathleen Stock (Sussex).
The group is both closed and secret, so I haven’t seen any posts from it firsthand, only summaries of what’s going on. Someone asked how to learn more about…gender critical feminism? One of the pejorative labels for same? I don’t remember, but one of those or something like it. Holly and Louise suggested reading Kathleen Stock. Kukla kicked them out without further ado.
But wait, there’s more. Of course there is; there always is; there is the festering hatred of various men who have to share … Read the rest
Kill the rebellious women
Mar 9th, 2019 3:53 pm | By Ophelia BensonMore of the same.
Imagine being six-foot-plus and wearing this violence-inciting T-shirt to the #IWD2019 march in a country where a woman is murdered every 30 hours. #NiUnaMenos #8M2019 pic.twitter.com/Nq0IM3ppyX
— Shona Craven (@shonacraven) March 9, 2019
The country is Argentina.
Pretty stunned by this reaction – my instinct was not to hug the person wearing that slogan. I was certainly too intimidated to take a photo. NB a woman is murdered every 30 hours in Argentina #NiUnaMenos https://t.co/ydEGnwogKz
— Shona Craven (@shonacraven) March 9, 2019
Man brags of woman-hating at IWD parade
Mar 9th, 2019 12:10 pm | By Ophelia Bensonhttps://twitter.com/KieranBennett/status/1103970038577414144
Big strong determined? Clearly not nearly enough so or that stupid “TRANSPHOBIA KILLS” banner wouldn’t be hogging the limelight on International WOMEN’S Day.
https://twitter.com/KieranBennett/status/1103928452283944960
“TERF graves are gender neutral bathrooms! [i.e.toilets]”
Not big, not strong, not determined, and sure as hell not feminist.… Read the rest
Isn’t lynching kind of fascist?
Jul 14th, 2018 10:46 am | By Ophelia BensonThere’s this winsome image:
I haven’t been able to find it on that group’s Facebook, so maybe Facebook has now removed it. But it’s interesting that people who seem to consider themselves to be on the left think that is a fine woke lefty image – a lynched woman with the inscription DEAD TERFs. The word “TERF” is a free pass for men to express loathing and contempt for women and be seen as awesomely progressive for doing so.… Read the rest
Pride bats aloft
Apr 25th, 2018 3:54 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe San Francisco Public Library posted on Facebook a couple of hours ago:
SFPL exhibits are intended to address social issues of the time. We do not endorse nor advocate the viewpoints of the exhibits. Due to concerns raised by library patrons, we are altering the degenderettes antifa art exhibit at the Main Library to remove an offensive shirt, a piece of artwork that could be interpreted as promoting violence, which is incompatible with our exhibitions policy. See the attached poster for more info about the exhibit.
“…pride bat in hand” – ready to club a woman. If it were a member of the KKK with a burning cross would the SFPL be celebrating the “defiance” with an exhibition? … Read the rest
A brick to the teeth
Apr 17th, 2018 10:10 am | By Ophelia BensonStrange times.
https://youtu.be/zNGTtqGG1Lk
The lyrics are helpfully provided.
… Read the restIts not hard to use the right words
When your talking to people
And you know the ones the prefer
Its not that complicated
To use respectful language
Its the least you can do
if you don’t it shows the truth
About you and your loyalty
To the patriarchy
Your false feminism
Hides your misogynyTerfs are trash
We won’t stand for trans exclusionary feminism
Theres nothing radical about traditional gender binariesIf you intentionally
misgender anybody
Your a sexist piece of trash
That deserves a brick to the teeth
Equality is for everybody
You gotta lot of nerve
coming round with that
Swerf talk terf talk
Gonna get that sidewalk
curb
What they call us
Mar 8th, 2018 2:05 pm | By Ophelia BensonThe Scottish National Party MP Mhairi Black read out some of the misogynistic abuse she gets, including liberal use of “cunt.”
For instance starting at about 1:00
She needs a kick in the cunt, guttural cunt, ugly cunt, wee animal cunt – there is no softening just how sexualized and misogynistic the abuse is.
Please tell us again how “cunt” is not at all misogynistic in the UK. Please; we’re listening.… Read the rest
Serial misogynist murder
Jan 4th, 2018 11:07 am | By Ophelia Benson… Read the restTheodore Johnson first killed a woman in 1981. He tipped his wife Yvonne over the balcony of their ninth-floor flat in Blakenhall Gardens, Wolverhampton, having already hit her with a vase. Well, they had been arguing – a factor that enabled him to plead guilty to manslaughter on the grounds of provocation. The second woman Johnson killed was Yvonne Bennett, in 1992. He strangled her with a belt while their baby slept. Her “provocation” was that she refused the box of chocolates he had bought to win her back; he was able to plead diminished responsibility and, after a two-year stay in a secure psychiatric unit, was released and again free to form new
You’re going to want to eat that porterhouse steak
Dec 20th, 2017 11:21 am | By Ophelia BensonPeople have been saying for weeks it’s not just Hollywood and journalism and broadcasting, it’s also the less glam places where most people work. Like factories for instance; like automobile factories; like Ford.
If you've read our stories about harassment among the famous and the elite, please promise me you'll also read this shattering tale set on Ford factory floors. https://t.co/CID3YgmVk0
— Jodi Kantor (@jodikantor) December 19, 2017
… Read the restThe jobs were the best they would ever have: collecting union wages while working at Ford, one of America’s most storied companies. But inside two Chicago plants, the women found menace.
Bosses and fellow laborers treated them as property or prey. Men crudely commented on their breasts and buttocks; graffiti of
Boys’ night out
Nov 12th, 2017 11:38 am | By Ophelia BensonOh gee, mark your calendars. “Sargon of Akkad” aka Carl Benjamin is doing a star appearance at Conway Hall (of all places) next month.
Sargon of Akkad presents:
“This Week in Stupid Live” – An Evening with Sargon of Akkad
Friday 15th December @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
A snip at £10.
… Read the restCarl “Sargon of Akkad” Benjamin is a popular independent Vlogger with over 700,000 subscribers on YouTube.
Carl critiques ideological arguments and his channel is dedicated to rational arguments backed by evidence. Sometimes a polemicist, at other times soft spoken, Sargon of Akkad has created a considerable amount of content regarding skeptical thought. The evening will be spent discussing politics, philosophy and the endless idiocy of the extremes
“Capitalism+atheism+feminism = sterility”
Sep 3rd, 2017 11:48 am | By Ophelia BensonJulian Assange tweets:
Capitalism+atheism+feminism = sterility = migration. EU birthrate = 1.6. Replacement = 2.1. Merkel, May, Macron, Gentiloni all childless. pic.twitter.com/mkqowTABWx
— Defend Assange Campaign (@DefendAssange) September 2, 2017
Helen Lewis responds:
https://twitter.com/helenlewis/status/904290514597498880… Read the rest
Gorgeous, horny, crush, beautiful, secretary
Aug 21st, 2017 1:02 pm | By Ophelia BensonExplorers find yet another cache of hostility to women.
… Read the restA pathbreaking new study of online conversations among economists describes and quantifies a workplace culture that appears to amount to outright hostility toward women in parts of the economics profession.
Alice H. Wu, who will start her doctoral studies at Harvard next year, completed the research in an award-winning senior thesis at the University of California, Berkeley. Her paper has been making the rounds among leading economists this summer, and prompting urgent conversations.
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The underrepresentation of women in top university economics departments is already well documented, but it has been difficult to evaluate claims about workplace culture because objectionable conversations rarely occur in the open. Whispered asides at
The end of “women”
Jul 15th, 2017 4:41 pm | By Ophelia BensonThere’s a piece by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha about emotional labor. The title is
A MODEST PROPOSAL FOR A FAIR TRADE EMOTIONAL LABOR ECONOMY
(CENTERED BY DISABLED, FEMME OF COLOR, WORKING CLASS/POOR GENIUS)
I have no idea what the second line, the one in parentheses, is supposed to mean.
Whatever it’s supposed to mean, I’m staggered before the piece even begins, by a throat-clearing that prefaces it:
… Read the restEditor’s note: In this piece you may notice some departures from Bitch’s house style. This piece was edited according to the author’s specifications.
Femme: A person who has one of a million kinds of queer femme or feminine genders. Part of a multiverse of femme gendered people who have histories and communities
More grabbing
Mar 30th, 2017 5:03 pm | By Ophelia Benson… Read the restThe Senate voted Thursday to let states block federal family planning money from going to Planned Parenthood affiliates and other abortion providers.
Senators approved the Republican legislation 51-50. Vice President Mike Pence cast the tie-breaking vote after two GOP senators, Maine’s Susan Collins and Alaska’s Lisa Murkowski, voted with Democrats against the measure.
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The Senate measure would roll back a regulation Obama issued shortly before leaving office. It bars state and local governments from denying federal family planning funds to organizations unless they are unable to provide those services. Some states have passed laws preventing abortion providers from receiving the funds.
There is already a ban on using federal funds for abortion except for rare instances.
Evidence of enormous vitriol
Dec 10th, 2016 4:52 pm | By Ophelia BensonJack Halberstam on intersectionality at Reed College.
… Read the restIn 1999, just six years after the rape and murder of a young gender variant person, Brandon Teena, and two friends in a small town in Nebraska, Kim Peirce released her first film, a dramatic account of the incident. The film, Boys Don’t Cry, which took years to research, write, fund, cast and shoot, was released to superb reviews and went on to garner awards and praise for the lead actor, Hilary Swank, and the young director, Kim Peirce, not to mention the film’s production team led by Christine Vachon. The film was hard hitting, visually innovative and marked a massive breakthrough in the representation of gender variant bodies. While there were
The number of Americans who would rather elect a rapist than a female human being
Nov 4th, 2016 9:16 am | By Ophelia BensonSady Doyle, like so many of us, is sick to death of this fucking election.
… Read the restI am tired of the lingering hangover of the Democratic primary, tired of what this conversation has shown me about the seemingly well-meaning, “progressive” men in my life. I am tired of seeing the damage that even the mildest, wimpiest, plaid-shirt-clad beardy-bro can do when he’s been given license to stop taking sexism seriously, and therefore stopped worrying that he might get somebody hurt.
I’m tired of the hurt. I’m tired of hearing from women who’ve been run off Twitter by harassment and death threats and doxing because they dared to express an opinion about a Presidential election. I am tired of arguing that
Sid Miller for Texas
Nov 1st, 2016 5:33 pm | By Ophelia BensonOf course. The people in the crowd have been doing it all along, of course a Trump honcho would call Clinton a cunt on Twitter. It’s a wonder Trump didn’t call her that in the debates.
Sid Miller @MillerForTexas
PENNSYLVANIA: NEW ALLIANCE POLL
TRUMP 44
Cunt 43
Go Trump go!
The Governor of Texas said no true Texas gentleman would ever talk this way.
Riiiight.… Read the rest