The landing.
The respectful debate
Feb 23rd, 2021 12:40 pm | By Ophelia BensonTRANSPHOBIA DEFINITION
Transphobia describes discriminatory or prejudiced language or actions, relating to actual or perceived gender identity, including denying or refusing to accept gender identity.
So there you have it. It’s “transphobia” – which is obviously very wicked indeed – to refuse to accept the new, stupid, dishonest, fantasy-based concept of “gender identity.” We’re not allowed to go on understanding reality on this particular subject, on pain of being accused and convicted of “transphobia.”
We have to agree that men are women if they say they are – always, no matter what, with no exception, no questions allowed – on pain of shunning at best and firing at worst.
We have to accept the new ideology no matter how seriously and energetically we explain that we don’t believe it and can’t believe it, for the simple reason that it’s obviously not true. We can’t not see a man when we do see a man, no matter how thick the makeup is or how frilly the dress is. All we can do is lie, and we’re at a loss to understand why we should be forced to lie about this subject.
Othello syndrome
Feb 23rd, 2021 12:25 pm | By Ophelia BensonOh it’s a syndrome now is it, not a murderous hatred of women but a nice literary syndrome with the prestige of Shakespeare behind it.
A man was experiencing “Othello syndrome”, the baseless belief that his wife was having an affair, when he stabbed her to death on the grounds of a hospital in Sydney’s east, a court has heard.
That’s not a syndrome, it’s misogyny crossed with jealousy and dominance.
Mourad Kerollos is on trial by judge alone in the NSW Supreme Court accused of murdering his wife Gihan Kerollos – known as Gigi – as she left work at Prince of Wales Hospital in Randwick about 8.30pm on May 18, 2019.
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A forensic psychiatrist, Dr Kerri Eagle, examined Mr Kerollos in May 2020 and is expected to tell the trial that he had a major depressive disorder at the time of the stabbing, or a psychotic disorder such as schizophrenia or schizoaffective disorder.
“He had delusional beliefs, he had referential ideation, he had auditory hallucinations, and he had a systematised belief associated with morbid jealousy – in the absence of any apparent proof – that his wife was acting as a sex worker and having affairs,” Mr Barrett said.
It’s interesting though how such delusional beliefs track familiar patterns of jealous controlling male behavior toward women they think of as their property.
Manhattan
Feb 23rd, 2021 10:46 am | By Ophelia BensonThe Guardian is underlining what a loser that guy is.
He lost the presidential election, lost more than 60 legal challenges to the result, lost his bid to overturn the electoral college, lost control of the Senate and lost an impeachment trial 43-57, though he was spared conviction on a technicality. On Monday, Trump lost yet again – with potentially far-reaching consequences.
The supreme court rejected an attempt by his lawyers to block Cyrus Vance, the Manhattan district attorney (DA) in New York, from enforcing a subpoena to obtain eight years of his personal and corporate tax records.
And why does the Manhattan DA want those tax records?
The DA has said little about why he wants Trump’s records but, in a court filing last year, prosecutors said they were justified in seeking them because of public reports of “possibly extensive and protracted criminal conduct at the Trump Organization” – Trump’s family business empire – thought to include bank, tax and insurance fraud.
Ok so maybe they just wanted to make the point. Maybe they don’t really care about the reports of criminal conduct in Trump’s outfit.
Now that investigation is gathering momentum. Vance, who earlier this month hired a lawyer with extensive experience in white-collar and organised crime cases, will be able to find out whether the public reports were accurate by studying actual financial records, spreadsheets and email correspondence between the Trump Organization and accounting firm Mazars USA.
Ok fine, whatever, but he’s busy. He probably won’t have time to show up in court.
On Sunday he is due to make his first speech since leaving office at the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) in Orlando, Florida, reasserting his command of the Republican party and teasing a new run for president in 2024.
Nobody can expect him to interrupt all that just because some local DA wants to prosecute him.
Grateful
Feb 23rd, 2021 10:16 am | By Ophelia BensonWoman’s Place UK has an open letter protesting the violent threat against Carmen Calvo.
WPUK has joined with 13 other organisations to call on all the major political party leaders in the UK to condemn the violent threat made against the Spanish Deputy Prime Minister, Carmen Calvo.
An effigy of Calvo was found suspended from a tree in the Plaza 8 de Marzo in Santiago de Compostela. The location is significant because of its connection with International Women’s Day. It was reported in a newspaper article that she was targeted because of her criticism of proposed new legislation known as ‘Trans Law’.
This latest incident marks an escalation in the targeting of high-profile Spanish feminists who dare to defend sex-based rights, such as Amelia Valcarcel, Lidia Falcon and Angeles Alvares.
I wonder if that’s why Sally Hines made this incorrect assertion:
Meandering and full of insults
Feb 22nd, 2021 4:34 pm | By Ophelia BensonTrump is very mad about the Supreme Court ruling. He’s so mad that he put out a “statement,” as if that’s going to change anything. Nobody has to do what he says any more, so his statements are just so much hot air.
Donald Trump’s yearslong quest to prevent the public, Congress, or law-enforcement officials from seeing his tax statements came to a resounding end with a unanimous Supreme Court ruling. He did not take the defeat in stride. Instead, the former president released a statement that, even by Trumpian standards, brims with anger.
Trump’s response bears every hallmark of an authentically Trump-authored text, as opposed to the knockoff versions produced by his aides. It is meandering, filled with run-on sentences, gratuitous insults, and exclamation points. Trump’s position on the tax returns rests on a series of assertions, ranging from his false claim that Robert Mueller found “No Collusion” to his insistence that he actually won the 2020 election to his extremely ironic complaint that prosecutors targeting their political opponents is “fascism, not justice.” (Trump, of course, spent his presidency publicly demanding his Attorneys General investigate his political rivals.)
It was MAGA when he did it, it’s fascism when anyone else does it (to him).
His outpouring of rage that Manhattan district attorney Cyrus Vance will finally have access to his financial documents suggests the only plausible reason for Trump’s evident dismay: He is very scared of being charged with crimes.
I do hope he goes to prison.
Women who speak up
Feb 22nd, 2021 3:22 pm | By Ophelia BensonThis is good!
If you don’t have 9 minutes to spare, start at 2 minutes.
At 4 minutes he cites the work of Jane Clare Jones.
How to allocate the 52
Feb 22nd, 2021 11:48 am | By Ophelia BensonI can’t stop. The hilarity is too.
Yes please please please tell me I’m valid.
But just wanting to exist doesn’t need a week. Presumably we all want to exist, except the suicidal among us. Or if it does need a week, it should be I Want To Exist Week.
The irony of the arophobic tweets
Feb 22nd, 2021 11:26 am | By Ophelia BensonAnd then of course the replies. Always the replies.
Amatonormativity!
Hey, I don’t like peanut butter cookies, do I get a week?
It’s also Parrot Olive Galoshes Week
Feb 22nd, 2021 11:15 am | By Ophelia BensonThey’re really doing this? It’s not a joke? I saw a mention of it earlier today but thought it was a joke. I guess it’s not a joke?
Really?
Tips? Support? Ally? Community?
They’re not joking?
Come on…
This one trans guy said
Feb 22nd, 2021 8:52 am | By Ophelia BensonThe Beeb gave the job of “analysis” on that Brighton NHS gendoo newtwoo wangwidge article to, of all people, Ben Hunte, their “LGBT correspondent” who doesn’t give a rat’s ass about women.
The hospital is currently receiving a huge amount of backlash following several misleading news reports and lots of misinformation on social media.
On Twitter, some have called the changes “misogynistic” or “an erasure of women”, and many have labelled them “ridiculous”.
Good start. Scare-quotes on misogyny; that’s Ben Hunte for you.
However, while some reports have stated that Brighton and Sussex University Hospitals NHS Trust is entirely replacing any language related to womanhood, this is not the case.
We know, it’s women and blah blah blah, but we still object to that, because it is in fact women and only women. We get to object to being redefined as well as being erased.
One trans man told me he is “disappointed” that language meant to include him is so divisive, as “adding others should not subtract”.
Poor Ben Hunte, he couldn’t persuade more than one trans man to tell him that?
Brighton changes name to Dimmon
Feb 22nd, 2021 8:37 am | By Ophelia BensonWhat are they putting in the drinking water in Brighton?
An NHS trust is to use “gender inclusive language” for its maternity services, including terms such as “chestfeeding” and “birthing parent”.
Brighton and Sussex University Hospitals Trust is thought to be first in the UK to adopt the language in its internal communications and meetings.
Let’s hope it’s also the last, and that it changes its mind.
The trust said it recognised “challenges” gender identity can have on pregnancy, birth and feeding.
It recognized what? You mean it recognized the challenges “gender identity” can present for pregnant women and mothers?
Let’s assume that’s what they mean. So what’s the point? That women who have delusions of being men find it painful or disconcerting to experience pregnancy and giving birth and nursing a baby, and that therefore there is a need to change the language used by everyone so that women will be erased even from that whole creating human beings thing that is why women are so policed. A very small number of women with socially-fostered delusions, and bam, it’s time to pretend anyone of any sex can push out a baby.
Don’t worry, women, we’ll still mention you, but we’ll also pretend that people other than women can push out babies.
A document on the trust’s website lists new terms such as “breast/chestfeeding”, “mothers and birthing parents” and “father or second biological parent”.
And all of Brighton joins hands and dances together.
There should be no limits
Feb 22nd, 2021 8:02 am | By Ophelia BensonScottish misogyny law must protect all women, says Helena Kennedy
On the one hand, duh, obviously it must. But this being now, of course on the other hand are we using “all women” to mean “including men”? We are, aren’t we. It wouldn’t be a news story otherwise.
There should be no limits of the types of women protected from hate crime says Baroness Helena Kennedy QC, as she begins her consideration of whether Scotland requires a standalone offence to tackle misogynist abuse.
Of course that’s right…unless by “types of women” you mean “especially men who call themselves women.” A man isn’t a type of woman. There are many types of rabbit, but a dog isn’t a type of rabbit. There are many types of tree, but a daffodil isn’t a tree.
Kennedy is immediately clear on how she would define the scope of specific protection she is charged with: “This is about hatred. Trans women, gay women, journalists, parliamentarians, all women get a whole lot of horrible stuff slung at them – disproportionately – and I’m not narrowing down those who receive it.”
Cute, but no. Trans women are men, and it’s not “narrowing down” the category “women” to say men are not women.
Describing it as an ambitious project to protect women, Kennedy and her six-person panel – “hand-picked by me” – have a year to resolve whether the creation of a standalone offence or adding sex to the list of other protected characteristics, such as race and religion, would better tackle misogynist abuse.
Why isn’t sex already a protected characteristic? I’ve never understood that.
The Scottish government’s own hate crime bill has attracted a huge amount of controversy and, while it was always the intention to examine this standalone option, the timing is far from ideal. As it stands, the bill that is passing through Holyrood criminalises, among other things, the stirring up of hatred against cross-dressing people, thereby protecting men who dress as women, but not the stirring up of hatred against women, while the decision on protections for women won’t be made until Kennedy’s working group reports back in 12 months’ time.
That’s how we know we’re women: we’re always an afterthought.
Carmen Calvo
Feb 21st, 2021 5:37 pm | By Ophelia Benson“Women saying no to males is ‘vileness & cruelty’, so says the man.
In Spain,an effigy of a woman who opposes men self ID’ing into our spaces was hung from a tree.
The attacks only come one side of this debate. It’s not coming from women, it’s coming from men who hate us saying no.”
“”This is an effigy of Carmen Calvo, Spain’s vice-president & Secretary of Equality at the socialist PSOE party. A Constitutional Law professor, she voiced legal concerns about “gender identity” policies…”
Raquel Rosario Sanchez
The boot on the neck, always.
With thanks to Asda
Feb 21st, 2021 5:00 pm | By Ophelia BensonWhere that “being offensive is a crime” billboard came from:
So apparently they parked outside an Asda with their police state billboard, and had rewarding chats positive discussion with the shoppers – the essential shoppers. I suppose by “essential shoppers” they mean people who were at the shop for essential goods only, not anything frivolous – like having a chat about the illegality of being offensive.
Mostly just women, probably, essential shopping at Asda to pick up the beans on toast, the tea, the chip butties, the Weetabix. That’s good, because women are the people who don’t matter when it comes to being offensive, and the people who need to be punished when anyone says a man is not a woman. Women need the police showing up at their essential shopping, so that they the women can be told how to behave, and the police can feel they’ve made the world less offensive for The Trans Community.
Take it away from them
Feb 21st, 2021 12:52 pm | By Ophelia BensonThis one had me holding my breath for a bit as I read. A council took funding away from a domestic violence shelter to give it to one “that caters for the needs of people with all the protected characteristics.” Sorry, wimz, you don’t have enough protected characteristics, bye!
Brighton and Hove City Council has defended the decision that cost a Brighton domestic violence charity a £5 million contract.
Senior councillors shared their shock when the situation was raised at a budget meeting.
And they promised to look into the decision that will lead to RISE being replaced by Victim Support and the social housing provider Stonewater.
RISE has run refuge and helpline services in Brighton and Hove for the past 26 years.
But now women escaping domestic violence will just have to live on the pier.
Today (Friday 19 February) councillors were told in a briefing that the bids to run the domestic violence and abuse support services were evaluated by officials from Brighton and Hove City Council as well as representatives of Sussex Police and the Office of the Sussex Police and Crime Commissioner.
The briefing said: “The specification for the recommissioning of the services in Brighton and Hove and East Sussex was informed by a comprehensive series of engagement events with multiple community and third sector stakeholders, including RISE and other incumbent providers, between January and October 2019.
“The engagement identified the need for a broader focus on inclusive service provision that caters for the needs of people with all the protected characteristics.
Because women just don’t matter enough on their own, you see. Some of them deserve the violence, and all of them could deserve the violence, so let’s stop funding them and instead fund more glamorous “protected characteristics.”
“Equalities impact assessments (EIAs) were carried out for the redesign of all services and identified the need for a broader focus on inclusive service provision that caters for the needs of people with all the protected characteristics.
“A commissioned report found that currently contracted domestic abuse services are viewed as much more accessible to women and that current onsite provision is women-only.
“The EIAs highlighted the need for more support for both heterosexual and gay male survivors and also highlighted the specific barriers to service experienced by the trans community, with trans survey respondents noting that the type of support they wanted was not available.
“The tender specification for community services was therefore intentionally non-gendered and inclusive to all survivors of domestic and sexual violence and abuse.”
But we were careful to take away the funding from the original group, that serves mostly women, because women don’t get to have funding mostly for women. Women don’t count. Please try to get that through your heads…in fact come over here, you need a slap.
Domestic abuse survivors put together a website and started a petition which has been signed by more than 20,000 people in just six days.
Gotta go, I have a petition to sign.
Merseyside Police is watching YOU
Feb 21st, 2021 11:35 am | By Ophelia BensonSpeaking of the police…
There’s a lot to notice about that. First there’s the fact that women are excluded from the list, I guess because women are never the target of hatred or violence. Then there’s the muddle of starting with a set of people and then instantly switching to a list of categories. Then there’s the fact that pimps are sex workers so what kind of “crime against” pimps do Merseyside Police have in mind? Then there’s belief – what is a “crime against” belief?
The other side isn’t great either. “BEING OFFENSIVE IS AN OFFENCE.” Really? All “being offensive” is a police matter? Have they thought this through?
I don’t know. The cops have never cared this much about women or immigrants or poor people or workers or brown people…they’ve never gone parading around town towing billboards saying “touch not mine anointed.” It’s only pimps and men who claim to be women who really get their zeal for policing going, I guess.
Teach the right concepts
Feb 21st, 2021 8:36 am | By Ophelia BensonAh yes the “habit” of thinking there are two genders and we know which is which. It’s just a silly frivolous thoughtless habit, like dropping your coat on the floor or whistling.
Hooray that we’re so enlightened now we’ve broken the habit, and are in a position to teach children “the right concepts” – that you’re a girl if you feel like a girl and if you don’t feel like a girl you’re a boy or nonbinary or one of leventy seven other flavors of GenDer.