A comment by a woman on Jo Phoenix’s post Talking about Asian grooming gangs:
An interesting and thought provoking article. One thing I find missing is the observation that not all cultures and religions are the same regarding attitudes towards women and girls. All are bad in their own way, but men of Muslim heritage and Muslim countries do have particularly oppressive and offensive attitudes about women and girls. Just because a subject raises unpleasant issues and is difficult to discuss doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be discussed.
I would put that more cautiously by saying that countries where Islam is more or less mandatory train men (and plenty of women) to be suspicious and contemptuous of women. Some men resist, some people grow up in more liberal secular families, yadda yadda, but the bottom line is that Islam teaches that women are always potential whores and have to be hidden and controlled and bullied.
Jo Phoenix’s reply, I’m sorry to say, is not impressive.
Not sure I agree. This is a generalisation. Catholicism? The Magdalen Schools in Ireland and csa by priests? Fundamentalism is a problem. Look at the legacy of Christianity in many African countries. We cannot say that Islam – as a religion – is more or less oppressive than Christianity.
First of all, yes, Catholicism, and the Magdalen laundries, and rapey priests. Yes, for sure. But that doesn’t translate to “Islam is not all that bad.” Yes it is. Look at Iran. Look at Afghanistan. Look at Boko Haram in Nigeria. Look at Saudi Arabia. And yes, look at Pakistan. The fact that Catholicism also sucks does not make Islam benign. There are reformist Muslims of course but the Taliban doesn’t pay a whole lot of attention to them. Of course we can say that Islam – as a religion – (what else would it be?) – is more oppressive than Christianity. Try telling the girls and women thrown out of schools and universities by the Taliban that Christianity is just as bad.
She goes on:
The generalisation comes in when you say ‘men of Muslim heritage’ – do you mean all men of Muslim heritage – if so this is the same as saying men of black heritage are problematic.
Of course it isn’t. Black heritage is not a religion, it has no Mohammed, it has no Koran, thus it has no holy book that tells it women are sly rebellious lying whores and must be muffled and controlled. It is fair to say that some men of Muslim heritage reject the misogyny, and even resist Islamist rulers and “activists” – like the late Tarek Fatah for instance. It’s fair to say that and it’s good to promote them and their work. But one can do that without pretending that Islam as it is in the world today is a benign or even somewhat benign religion. Unless you think half of humanity is simply worthless, that won’t fly.