No, I don’t think that’s right.
Rape doesn’t have to (and it mostly doesn’t) include violence. It’s often a mundane practice. It often goes unrecognised and brushed off as bad sex. It can be hugely traumatic and/or an annoyance. It happens in and out of ‘relationships’ and across sexualities and genders.
— Sally Hines (@sally_hines) September 3, 2021
If it doesn’t include violence in some form, including the form of a permanent inescapable situation/relationship in which the woman does not have the option of saying no, then it’s not rape. But a relationship in which the woman can’t say no is a rape-relationship, for sure. And they’re not rare, of course – arranged marriages with no consent for the woman … Read the rest