Originally a comment by Bruce Gorton on They would magically transform.
I’m not entirely sure they really want to be women, so much as they want to be what they think women are.
That distinction I think matters. I don’t think I could ever see myself as trans, because I am me, I can only ever be me, and thus I have no frame of reference for how to really truly be anyone else.
This doesn’t mean I can’t imagine how others feel, or that I can’t empathize, but that my frame of reference is based on data that is available to myself, and thus can never fully encompass someone else’s life.
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