She neither chooses nor identifies with this status
Glosswitch talked about the “pregnant people” issue back in February.
Last week I wrote an article on the discrimination suffered by pregnant women and new mothers. In doing so I wished to stress that such discrimination is rooted not in the nature of pregnancy itself, but in the low status accorded to women as a class. If the rules changed overnight and people of higher status – men – got pregnant, we would treat the whole process very differently. Instead, we live in a world where 800 women die every single day from preventable causes related to pregnancy and childbirth. This isn’t because pregnancy happens; it’s because it only happens to people who don’t matter. These people we call “women.”
Exactly. The fact that it’s women it happens to is crucial, so dropping the word “women” from the discussion is a truly terrible idea.
I am not prepared to compromise on what gender is and how it relates to the exploitation of female bodies if what I’m writing about is pregnancy discrimination (if what I was writing about was favourite sandwich fillings I might take a different approach). I’m well aware that it’s considered polite (at least if you’re a woman) to add some little qualification that undermines one’s whole argument by prioritising gender as brainsex over gender as a murderous hierarchy, but if we’re talking about actual death tolls, I’m not doing it. So that’s it. Much as I’d love to join in [with] the superficial halo polishing I’m out.
Once the murderous hierarchy no longer exists – then it will be another story. But that won’t be on the watch of “third wave” feminism, or “hundredth wave” either.
“Pregnant woman” is not an identity. It is a social reality. A pregnant woman’s ever-contracting rights – whether she can choose to end this pregnancy, whether she will risk imprisonment for drinking too much, whether she will lose her job, whether she will be murdered by her partner – can only be seen through the filter of her inferior social status: that of woman. She neither chooses nor identifies with this status and it matters that the restrictions it places on her and others be fully acknowledged. Hundreds of women died today because of the way in which pregnancy intersects with their political and social status as women. The term “pregnant people” denies them the specificity of their deaths and masks the cause.
What gender-neutral pregnancy campaigning has achieved is wholly negative, making it impossible to articulate why there exists a class of people who are not granted full sovereignty over what lies beneath their own skin. It has located the abortion debate (which should not be a debate at all) back where conservatives want it: on the status of the foetus, not that of the gravida. It has allowed the misogynist left to consolidate their definition of woman as “passive fantasy girl with tits” as opposed to “person with independent physical functions, emotions and needs.” Above all, it has created the illusion of an opt-out to being placed in the inferior sex class. Well, there isn’t, at least not until you can be bothered to challenge the fundamental idea that half the human race is inferior (oh, but that’s so much harder than messing about with words!).
It’s a lot less fun, too.
Fine article.
This is as good a place as any to say, it’s nice to come here to B&W and be challenged to think, and to examine my assumptions.
Thanks for not hosting an anodyne “safe space,” Ophelia.
On a related note, I was arguing with some people yesterday that no, I don’t think we should do away with the words “male” and “female” just because 1% of people fit neither of those categories. Asides from the general usefulness and accuracy of the terms given they apply to 99% of the population, if we did away with them, I would find it difficult to articulate the struggles I’ve faced specifically due to being female. Being born female means I was marked from birth as a “girl”, and expectations were loaded on to me from the start. Being female means I face all kinds of social crap related to my body, as well as having to deal with worries about pregnancy, periods, particular hormones, etc. I agree, however, we should do away with the normativity of the terms “male” and “female”, and add a new one to refer to the 1% of the population who don’t fit into the terms (we already have intersex, but maybe we need more specific ones). Meanings can be refined over time as learn more about the world, so there’s no reason “male” and “female” can’t lose their implicit binarism and consequent normativity.