In shocking detail
A major new report launched today by Sex Matters reveals in shocking detail that leaders in the women’s sector who advocate for female-only services are routinely subjected to investigations, ostracisation, bullying and employment loss, and have been pressured into adopting policies that compromise women’s welfare and safety.
Yet a new poll has found that the British public strongly backs single-sex support for women who have been the victims of rape, sexual assault or domestic violence, with 84% believing such women should have access to female-only services.
I’m even more crazy-radical than that: I think all women should have access to female-only services.
The report, titled Women’s services: A sector silenced, is the first of its kind globally. It is based on interviews with 19 experts and leaders in the sector from a wide range of organisations providing support services to women. These include rape-crisis centres, domestic-violence refuges and support services, support for trafficked women and women in prostitution, and prison and probation services that engage with female offenders, many of whom are survivors of abuse.
Interviewees warned that the issues go far beyond the risk that women may be put at risk or be attacked. When women victims of male violence are left doubting whether a service is truly single-sex, and when they are banned from using clear language to talk about this, they may be retraumatised and fearful, and lose trust. They may self-exclude from support services.
For the sake of the fantasies of a few men, women self-exclude from support services intended for women. Seems fair.
I have no problem with trans-identified males who are victims of violence to have a place to go when they need help. I understand they probably want these spaces to be free of men. I’m not sure how you accomplish that, because if you make a center for trans identified people who are victims, by definition most if not all of the people being helped would be men.
It doesn’t work for the TiMs if even one other TiM is there, because if they want to get away from men, that won’t fill the bill. Why can’t they understand why it’s a problem for women?