Allowing people to control their own lives
The ACLU is really leaning into this Erase Women campaign. It has a page for Abortion is Essential: Stories of Liberation, which continues the Delete Women program.
The ability to decide whether and when to have children is essential to allowing people to control their own lives and futures. For many, having access to affordable abortion care opens the door to fulfilling educational and career goals, better parenting, staying true to gender identities, and other critical parts of life that everyone should have the ability to choose for themselves.
Freedom to decide whether and when to have children is important to men too of course, but not in the up close inside your body way it is to women. And “staying true to gender identities” is just the usual boring jargon, thrown in to nag us about not forgetting that which we are never allowed to forget.
This month, we’re launching a storytelling series in partnership with We Testify, an organization devoted to uplifting the voices of people who have had abortions.
And ignoring and insulting the half of humanity who needs them.
There are five stories. Of course one of them is by a woman who identifies as a man.
There’s a page on how to talk about abortion at the dinner table. Spoiler: by not mentioning women.
When it comes to discussing abortion access, the focus should remain centered on the people who need, or will need, this critical care — and the direct harm forced pregnancy places on lives.
Women, they mean; women’s lives, they mean.
Is there any other oppressed / disadvantaged / subordinated group being systematically and deliberately erased this way? Hidden among “people” and “lives” instead of being named? I sure as hell don’t know of any. It’s intensely insulting, so human rights groups and the like know better than to do it…except, now, when it comes to women. Suddenly half of humanity, the source of all humanity, doesn’t get to have even a word for itself.
Despite how anti-abortion politicians may frame it, forced pregnancy is not some political talking point: Forced pregnancy is taking away a person’s constitutional and human right to control their body and their future.
A woman’s. It’s not just a person’s in general, it’s a woman’s in particular. This is something that can’t be done to men – it’s an injustice done to women. Name us. I don’t care what Chase Strangio says; name us.
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someoneabortion care has devastating and lasting consequences for the pregnantperson— it can jeopardizetheirhealth, economic well-being and ability to determinetheirown future, for not onlythemselvesbuttheirfamily.
Six. Six times in that one sentence they erase women from the very role that has made them subordinate.
It goes on and on and on the same way, all down the page. It’s a massive betrayal.
Having a baby messes with all kinds of identities, not just gender. You identify as a reader? Hope you really like Hop on Pop and Goodnight Moon. Spontaneous person? Good luck even getting out of the house before 3 PM. Late sleeper? HA!
And of course most people identify as the perfect parent before the babies come along to set them straight.
So why not mention all of those identities as well?
But not one by a man identifying as a woman? Weird, I was told trans women were biologically female too.
“The ability to decide whether and when to have children is essential to allowing people to control their own lives and futures.”
Guess who does not have this ability? Men. Men don’t get to decide whether or when to have children because they can’t stop a woman from having an abortion or force her to have one. This is one of the big MRA talking points, why should they be forced to pay for children they don’t want, or be deprived of having children they do want, because a woman has control over whether or not to give birth. This erasure of women is dangerous, because if “people” have the right to decide whether or not to have children, women no longer have control over their own bodies.
Yes, with one amendment – very often men can stop women from having abortions. Most of the time, probably, speaking globally.