Something in common
Joan Smith has a must-read piece at the Guardian about the often overlooked connection between violence against women and terrorist violence.
Five years ago, I began to notice that the perpetrators of some of the worst terrorist attacks had something in common. A high proportion shared a history of assaulting wives, girlfriends and other female relatives, sometimes involving a whole series of victims, long before they attacked total strangers.
It’s so obvious once she points it out, isn’t it. Of course they do. What do we so often see in angry men? That they love to turn their anger in the direction of women. But it needs to be spelled out explicitly so that law enforcement gets it and acts accordingly. Joan (who is a fucking superhero by the way) has made that happen.
She cites some examples from 2016 and 2017 (do read the whole piece).
There were striking similarities between the histories of Darren Osborne, the rightwing extremist who drove a van into worshippers leaving a mosque in north London, and Khalid Masood, the Islamist who staged an attack on Westminster Bridge. Both men had criminal records for violent offences – and both had abused women.
Officially they were enemies – a right-winger who attacked random Muslims and an Islamist who attacked random walkers on a bridge – but they were bros underneath.
I thought these cases challenged conventional wisdom about terrorism, which holds that it is all about ideology. Many fatal terrorist attacks actually appeared to be an escalation of violence that had been going on, sometimes for years, against members of the perpetrator’s family. I was convinced that the police and MI5 needed to change the way they assessed the risk posed by suspects, treating a history of domestic violence as a very significant red flag.
When I raised this with the authorities, however, I encountered scepticism and disbelief. So I decided to write a book, using published sources to piece together a woeful catalogue of men who had humiliated, beaten and sexually assaulted women long before they became notorious as terrorists. It was published in 2019 and this time senior figures at counter-terrorism policing and the Home Office listened.
See what I mean? Super hero.
The Home Office commissioned research on “adults and children who had caused concern to teachers, social workers and family members because of a possible vulnerability to radicalisation (V2R).” The results are not yet published but Joan has seen them and calls them stunning.
Almost 40% of adult referrals had a history of domestic abuse either as perpetrators, witnesses or victims – or a combination of all three. This is likely to be an underestimate, given that domestic violence is one of the most under-reported crimes, but it provides some idea of prevalence for the first time. The comparable figure for children is 30%, another likely underestimate because under-16s were not routinely questioned about domestic abuse in the home.
Again – one feels “of course” but Joan actually got officialdom to do the research.
As I expected, the link is visible across ideologies, from Islamists and rightwing extremists to the fifth of the sample where no known ideology was identified. This confirms my theory that terrorism is at least as much about male violence as ideology, suggesting that angry young men are attracted to extremist ideas that appear to “justify” their grievances.
So now that they know misogynist violence can be a warning sign for real violence [sarcasm alert] maybe law enforcement could start to take it seriously. Maybe.
The Project Starlight report rightly includes a raft of recommendations, calling for much wider awareness of the link between violent extremism and a history of domestic violence. “All counter-terrorism case officers should consider checking for potential links to a domestic abuse-related incident,” it says.
But this may not be straightforward when so few incidents lead to convictions. A recent report revealed that three-quarters of domestic abuse cases reported to the police in England were closed without the perpetrator being charged. Some organisations have come up with welcome innovations – Croydon in south London, for instance, has a specialist social worker sitting on Channel panels, leading to the disclosure of previously unsuspected domestic abuse in the history of V2R referrals.
But the Cinderella status of crimes against women can no longer be tolerated. The connection between private and public violence is now crystal clear – and the cost of continuing to ignore it is way too high.
Joan Smith is the author of Home Grown: How Domestic Violence Turns Men Into Terrorists and co-chair of the mayor of London’s Violence Against Women and Girls board
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“Cinderella status” = being ignored? (As Cinderella is ignored in favor of her step-sisters?)
Yeah, I was really impressed when I read that earlier. It’s so obvious. I imagine people have noticed it before, but nobody ran with it like this and forced everyone to listen, obviously. Amazing.
Makes it obvious why Pakistan, which has legalized men beating their wives, is such a hotbed of terrorism, including State-sponsored terrorism. Of course, they are one of our best buddies in the region, along with the Head Choppin’ Kingdom of Saud.
FWIW, it goes even further back.
People who commit domestic violence are often found to have a history of cruelty to animals.
People? Or boys/men?
Yes.
Boys.
Men.
Let it be acknowledged.
When will we see the first #notallwifeabusers hash tag?
Robin Morgan’s “The Demon Lover” is a prescient read. https://www.amazon.ca/Demon-Lover-Roots-Terrorism-ebook/dp/B00NTI2404
Islamists *are* right wing extremists (well, they’re right wing anyways, almost all Muslims are Islamists despite the vast majority of Muslims not being terrorists). So odd word choice there.
The best predictor of future behavior is… past behavior. A man who abuses his wife/partner will escalate that to strangers, either occasionally or chronically.
Joan Smith says:
[My emphasis – Omar.]
A son can witness his father beating up his mother, and have a variety of responses to it, from inspiration to revulsion. In my own case, it was the latter. While it was a major factor IMHO driving my highly talented (and religious) mother to become an alcoholic, as a 10-year-old boy I felt powerless to physically intervene, and my attempts to intervene to protect my mother could only be verbal. Afterwards, having told my father privately that no matter what he thought my mother had done, “you should never have hit her”, he got very remorseful.* But then it happened again. And again, and again, and again. Then one day my mother told me that my father wanted a divorce: he had a girlfriend, and wanted to marry her; which effectively dropped the bottom out of my world.
But it did not cause me to become violent towards women myself. Quite the opposite. There is nothing that arouses me to anger, and that of the confrontational variety, quicker than a man who thinks it is OK to assault a woman; and I have a couple of dan grades in a powerful martial art to back me up if push comes to shove.**
In order for male violence against women to become institutionalised, as appears to have happened in Pakistan, there would have to be a persuasive brotherhood organisation to lend ‘moral’ support to any waverers. Otherwise, even a minority of young men who opposed such could make a social difference far beyond their mere numerical strength: an Islamic counterpart to the male-dominated Hitler Youth. I would think that there would be such organisations in the Islamic world.
*My father had a quite pathological (far beyond philosophical) hostility to religion; particulary Christianity. Reflection on this in the light of recent revelations about child abuse by Christian clerics has led me to the conclusion that a lot of my father’s problems possibly arose from his having been sexually abused when he was boarded out in a religious mountain community in West Virginia while his parents went on a touring holiday elsewhere.
** Those who intervene on behalf of the woman in such domestic brawls reportedly often find that the woman sides with the man who has been beating her up, and against the interventionists. This is commonly explained as an attempt by the assaulted woman to head off a worse assault from her perpetrator after the interventionists depart the scene.
I think it is a still a minority (albeit a sadly significant minority) of men who engage in this sort of violence. Neither myself, nor any of the guys I run with, do this. Nor do we start fights in bars. Nor did we ever. But all of us know of guys who are quick to fly off the handle and who brag about the fights they’ve been in.
Such men will be quick to lash out at the women in their lives. Violence seems like such an easy answer to life’s questions. Including the difficulties of navigating a romantic relationship. But these are the guys for whom it becomes second nature. To just lash out and hit. And such stunted souls often look for invented reasons to hit and abuse and dominate.
Violent men do violent things. But outside signals can change societies from thinking this is normal, even healthy behaviour, to thinking that this is a problem that needs to be overcome. Acknowledging the problematic reality is a crucial first step.
Blood Knight In Sour Armor @9:
This seems a bridge too far to me. While I’d accept a claim that they, like most religious believers, want to spread their faith to others, Islamism is very explicitly a desire to create Caliphates where other religious beliefs are suppresed. Given the sheer number of practicing Muslims who still seek to flee Islamist nations, saying that almost all Muslims are Islamist seems a bit dubious, at best.
I don’t think of every Christian as a Dominionist, and I don’t think you can make a similar confluence between “Muslim” and “Islamist”.
Yes, and it’s a little more complicated than that. There are some lefty beliefs/values embedded in Islamism alongside the ferociously not-lefty ones.
Add one more, Brenton Tarrant, the ChCh Mosque murderer, had no criminal record of his own but was a witness to and a victim of his father’s violence.
OB:
Which was the sort of thing post 9/11 that led the late Christopher Hitchens to discriminate between the pro-totalitarian Left and its anti-totalitarian counterpart, within which he identified and claimed membership.
Maybe I’m being too simplistic but seeing as you don’t get what one might call “liberal” Islam in Muslim majority countries (Turkey was the last secular Muslim country left) and most/almost all Muslims live in said countries I think it’s valid but it may just be semantics…
Point being we’re past the days of the Ottoman empire, Iraq, Iran, British Palestine, and Turkey are gone. Non-Islamist Muslims generally are minorities wherever they live.
Self-righteous, indignant, driven by sense of entitled grievance. Characteristics shared by Islamist killers and the ‘troon’ lynch mobs. And the bulk of the Billy-Bob Trump cultists. Does it come with the Y chromosome?