Feminists do not police patriarchal gender norms
Jane Clare Jones offers a list of 30 propositions on ontological totalitarianism. I will share a few by way of appetizer.
2. Human beings have a right to their own perceptions.
10. Resisting coercion is not bullying.
12. Recognition must be freely given if it is to meaningfully function as validation.
Good one. Yes it must. If it’s forced…well it’s not really recognition, is it, it’s just a mouthing of words.
15. Trans people who are visibly gender non-conforming are subject to violence as a result of the policing of patriarchal gender norms.
16. Feminists do not police patriarchal gender norms.
21. People refusing to validate your identity may be painful.
22. Something being painful is not conceptually identical to it being a moral harm, structural violence, or an act of oppression.
23. Not getting our needs met is sometimes painful.
24. Sometimes our needs don’t get met because other people also have needs, beliefs, and interests.
25. Thinking you must always have you needs met and refusing to understand why other people may not meet your needs, is narcissistic entitlement.
And you know what? Narcissistic entitlement does not make for progressive politics. Progressive politics is pretty much all about rejecting narcissistic entitlement.
Wow. Brilliant.
A very large number of people need to read this, who won’t.
And despite not reading it, those same people will use it to label Jane Clare Jones an evil transphobic bigot and do their utmost to destroy her career.
I liked this post, so I signed up to her Patreon account.
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Someone posted this comment:
Would not accepting being called “it” technically be narcissistic entitlement? But most people (other than extreme libertarians) would flinch at going along with “it”. Certainly the person doing that would be called out and shunned. Trans advocates would probably see things the same way, hence their calling out and shunning.
Skeletor, that’s not the same thing. The pronouns Jones is referring to have a material reality behind them. “It” doesn’t.
Is Skeletor’s point that it’s bad to call people “it” so it’s also bad to call people her or him?
I can’t tell. It’s a bizarre comment.
Skeletor, #5; everybody–
JCJ’s reply to that question is characteristically thoughtful and well worth reading.
Another clause that might have made its way into the initial post:
17. Violence directed at people who violate patriarchal gender norms is an artifact of patriarchy, not an artifact of feminism.
Well all the clauses might have made their way into the initial post but I wanted y’all to go read the whole thing!
And yes, selection was difficult.