Not you, sir
Men who pretend to be women are not examples of “female leaders.” Ever. They’re the negation of female leaders. They’re men who shove their way into women’s everything and thus shove women out. Flattering and rewarding them for doing so is just another notch on the Comprehensive Attack on Women belt.
First, look at the freaking size disparity there. Second, if you are a leader, surely you talk about leadership, the community you serve, the accomplishments that you and that community have achieved together? Not about some special identity you have that you think makes you super special.
That’s it in a nutshell, isn’t it – being super special.