Guest post: Suddenly they all found that they could prevent it

Originally a comment by Athel Cornish-Bowden on Local misogyny.

Kaspar Zeta-Skeet said there was an “assumption” among some teenagers he taught “that women are things just to be observed”

I fear that that is indeed a common assumption of boys, made much worse by social media.

In France, we are experiencing a particularly nasty series of violent attacks on teenagers by other teenagers — three in three days, not all girls. The first concerned a young girl of 13 in Montpellier. She had been bullied for around 18 months, especially by a somewhat older girl who considered that she wasn’t a proper Muslim because she wore normal clothes and joined in regular school activities. This older girl, or one of her friends, sent a telephone message to many people at her school asking them to meet outside the school to teach the younger one a lesson. About 20 people, mostly or all teenagers, did exactly that, and gathered outside the entrance. Three of them (including the older girl) knocked the victim down and kicked her, on the head and elsewhere, until she was unconscious and had a brain haemorrhage. She was taken to hospital and fortunately her life is no longer in danger. What the other 17 were doing I don’t know, maybe just enjoying the spectacle, or taking videos on their telephones.

The second occurred in the outskirts of Paris the next day and concerned a boy on his way back from school. He was attacked by five older boys in balaclavas and left unconscious in the middle of the road. Tragically, the doctors weren’t able to save him, and he died. They’ve not revealed any information about the apparent motives. The boy was called Shemasedine, so maybe this also had a religious motive.

The third occurred in Tours the following day, but they haven’t revealed any details.

In the1990s and earlier hazing was a big problem in the cours préparatoires for preparing for the examinations for the Grandes Écoles. The then Minister of Education, Ségolène Royal, ended it in 1998 almost from one day to the next by announcing the principals of Lycées would be held personally responsible for any hazing that occurred and if they said that they couldn’t prevent it they would be relieved of their positions and replaced by someone who could. Suddenly they all found that they could prevent it. That was in 1998; in 1999, when our daughter went to the Lycée Thiers in Marseilles, which had had some of the worst cases, there was no hazing at all, and she loved the two years she there. I think something along the same lines with schools that today don’t prevent bullying and sometimes violence might have a good effect.

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