What is a definition?

Interesting…

“Well, it’s an adult human female, but Neil our laws have changed and attitudes are changing where there are people now who identify differently to their biological sex. And what I have always wanted is to respect that and include people.”

This “include” thing – it’s a puzzler. Sometimes “include” is neutral and passionless. You can include tomatoes on your shopping list, you can include socks when you pack a suitcase, you can include chairs when you furnish a room. Sometimes “include” has to do with human relationships – you can include people among your friends, or not; children can include classmates in their birthday party invitations, or not. But it’s a new and confused idea that we can “include” people in definitions in defiance of the meaning of the definitions, and that we ought to do so because if we don’t we’re failing to “include” those people the same way children fail to “include” the nerdy kids in their class. Definitions are not birthday parties or clubs or picnics or circles of friends. Definitions cease to function as definitions if we start “including” items in them for the sake of not hurting someone’s feelings.

So it is with this idea of “including” men who pretend to be women in the definition of women. It’s not necessary, and it misses the whole point of a “definition.” It’s beside the point that some men may feel hurt or angry or dissed if they’re not “included” in the definition of “women,” because the meaning of the word relies partly on the fact that men are not women. The two words are mutually exclusive. Men are not women; they are not-women. Women are not men; they are not-men. “Including” some of each for the sake of “including” people because that’s the nice kind non-bullying thing to do just doesn’t make any sense. You don’t add a few token giraffes to the definition of “lion” and you don’t add a few token lions to the definition of “giraffes.” It doesn’t matter if some giraffes or some lions will have hurt feelings about this. You can invite them to the parties, but you can’t “include” them in all the definitions.

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