Guest post: The real moral panic
Originally a comment by Mike Haubrich on Incomplete picture.
There are many awareness days related to trans issues, but today’s is very important. Detransition Awareness Day is vital because there are so many people in positions of power being led to believe that something so life-changing as gender identity is a fixed awareness that one is “born in a body that doesn’t match their identity.”
I was at the Seattle Public Library Event sponsored by WoLF in February 2020. After exiting, thanks to police guard we were safe from the frothing crowd who were chanting “No hate, no fear, all genders welcome here” with what I perceived as hatred for the women who spoke and attended.
I met up with a few women who told me that there was a small meeting of people who had been affected by children and teenagers being transitioned early. One of them was a young woman, early twenties, who was a desister. She hadn’t medically transitioned, but she was clawing her way back from believing since she was an early teen that she was a transman. So, at the meeting, there was pizza, and people shared their stories. Some were grandparents of children who were transed very young, and cut off from seeing them because they didn’t want their grandchildren pushed into a process that would alter them irreversibly. Others were parents who had been cut off by their children, their children rejecting them because the children believed they were trans and the parent wanted them to get counseling. Many were detransitioners or desisters who had been rushed into transitioning, with very little thought towards the reasons that they many believe they were transgender.
There’s so much of this “Believe the children, they know who they are.” This was among the stories that were told that night, and we really didn’t learn much from the Satanic Panic, did we? There we were admonished to believe the children, but children are spending so much of their pre-adolescence trying to figure out who they really are and can be easily misled.
When Aaron Rabinowitz talks about Moral Panic in the bathroom bills, he is performing a DARVO trick. There is a moral panic, that if we don’t rush our gender curious kids to trans medically now then they will try to kill themselves. And if the teachers think the parents won’t do this, they must take it on themselves to do the right thing and hide it from the parents.
Gender dysphoria is obviously a real thing. But latching onto the first perceived cure and denying any others (such as working with people to live in a gendered society while also working to break the gender expectations down,) is damaging to so many young people.
And when this moral panic subsides, those who have been medically damaged will not be able to be restored. Breasts can’t be regrown, nor can penises and testes.
Tavris’ article is important and needs to be shared far and wide, to overcome the BS that people like PZ are spreading as “skeptics.”
If that really were true, we would be hip deep in lions, elephants, and dinosaurs. We would be supporting, as Ophelia brilliantly called it, “phylum affirming care.” I can’t imagine what recourse we would have with those children who feel they are submarines, airplanes, or giant robots, but I’m sure the trans humanists are working on it as we speak.
Last night I watched most of Genspect’s webinar on detransition and it was excellent. There were some eye-opening moments and I learned a lot. There were some desperately sad stories, but also happy endings. It was very well put together and the format was exactly as it should be: let the detransitioned women just talk. Stella is so good at that and the brilliant Sinead Watson was there, too, asking excellent questions and being superbly cross.
They’re incredible women who made one hell of a big mistake for a variety of reasons (autism, GD, fandom, backlash to being a butch lesbian…) but they’ve found their way out of it strong and happy.
https://genspect.org/conferences/
It was recorded and as the page says, clips will be released on social media in the coming days. I recommend keeping an eye open. Two, if you can spare them (who can, these days?)
There’s too much interesting stuff to go into in any depth, but I’ll mention this one thing: three of the women spoke about being prescribed and injecting testosterone. They’d coached themselves on how to tick the boxes with the physician to guarantee a prescription and they received almost no resistance and no sort of talk therapy. They were given a big old bottle of T and some syringes and pretty much told to knock themselves out. In follow-up appointments, none were asked any medical questions. One didn’t even have her bloodwork done. None were told about the medical issues of injecting testosterone and when they complained about symptoms such as vaginal atrophy, their doctors didn’t know what to do.
So far, so familiar, we’ve seen stories like this before.
But they all reported that they were given far more T than they needed. They got a big pickle-jar full with a three month shelf life, which contained more than they had been prescribed. So what do you imagine they did? Take only the prescribed amount and pour the rest down the sink? Of course not. As Sinead said: more T will make me into a man quicker, I’m filling that syringe to the brim.
It wasn’t mentioned in the webinar, but the cynic in me can’t help but think this was a deliberate act by the prescribing doctors: we’re not allowed to prescribe you the amount you want, but if we give you this demijohn full of T and then…. forget… to do your bloodwork afterwards, then… nobody’s the wiser, right?
Presumably a sincere desire to help, but a seriously, malpracticey misguided one, which can not possibly fail to have enormous health implications for already medically shortchanged women.
It would be naive to expect that exactly the same sort of thing isn’t happening to transitioning boys, too. It’s a horror show.
Anyway, I recommend keeping an eye out for clips as they arrive and following those brilliant women on social media, if you’re not already. My only regret is that I was too tired to watch the whole thing.
I was prescribed to take T because I was testing low for a while. I am not sure exactly why. I had the choice of monthly shots by a nurse, or to take it at home. I chose to apply it at home. The number of precautions that they provide men so that women don’t get exposed to it is incredible, and to see that it’s given to kids like that was eye-opening to me. It’s not a like acne cream, kids. It’s serious stuff.
Thanks for the link,
babelatsot. I’ve bookmarked the site. I look forward to the releases of the videos.Some years back I turned up with [symptom]. My doctor ran some tests and found marginally low T. He sent me to an endocrinologist, who prescribed T replacement.
The stuff made me want to crawl out of my skin.
I gave it up after a few months.
Mike@3:
I just suffered a coughing fit from drinking tea while reading that!
My deepest apologies. That’s why Ophelia has an implied disclaimer that she is not responsible for choking while reading B&W.