Guest post: Not even mad
Originally a comment by Artymorty on Steve’s nails.
Does Steve think that the only way to rebel against gender stereotypes is to pretend that sex isn’t binary? Does Steve not understand that gender stereotypes aren’t the same as biological sexes? Does Steve think it’s impossible for him to wear nail polish if males and females are in any way different sexes? Does Steve think that by declaring himself neither male nor female he’s on the path to convincing us all that male and female literally don’t exist? Or is it not a matter of whether sex differences do or don’t exist, but whether they should or shoudn’t exist?
None of this makes any sense for more than a second or two. One goes from “ok, nonbinary is like gender bending” — fine so far I guess — but then one sees “oh, wait, they’re saying they’re neither male nor female because they’re gender bending” and after about two seconds of thought, the whole thing just turns into a self-contradictory jumble that doesn’t make the slightest bit of sense.
That this Travis person can write an entire book without putting so much as two seconds of thought into what he’s talking about is such an incredible level of narcissism, in the words of Ron Burgundy, I’m not even mad; that’s amazing.
As I’ve said before, I have a grandson who has long hair and loves to wear nail polish. It might well be the case that at least some of the kids at his school try to mock him for it (the GAA boys – ‘jocks’ in USAian parlance – can be very cruel to non-conformists, probably as a way to deflect attention from their own deficiencies), but he’s unfazed. In that way, he is very much my descendant; neither of us see why we should conduct ourselves according to the opinions of others.
Dear Steve, you are being out-adulted by a boy who has been out-adulting you for years – and isn’t yet twelve.