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I don’t think Owen Jones is the right guy to talk about it.
In fact I think he’s absolutely the wrong guy to talk about it. Not the only or the most wrong guy, but still the wrong guy.
It’s entitled men who hate women, that’s what it is and what’s driving it. Owen too is entitled and Owen too hates women. The up front reasons for the hatred are different, but the gut instinct is the same.
So incels are like TIMs but without the lipstick and heels?
If you want a male commenter on the issue go for James Bloodworth, who has written about this phenomenon before and who is decent and consistent.