What hate isn’t
Save Women’s Sports posted an item yesterday:
The Save Women’s Sports flag was raised this morning over Nashua City Hall, where it will be flying through Friday! Thank you to Beth Scaer for your dedication to our movement! Ask your city if they offer this option and we can send a flag your way!
But it got taken down today. A Nashua group page patted itself on the back for silencing women.
Yesterday morning, a flag was raised over Nashua City Hall in support of a transphobic organization, with the expectation that it would continue to fly until Friday. As word spread through the community, the response was clear – this isn’t what Nashua stands for. Many folks reached out to Nashua government officials and city employees, others posted publicly about the issue. As of this morning at 8:30 AM, the flag is down.
Many thanks to Jim Donchess for your quick response, Jan Schmidt and Jenn Morton and Mutual Aid & Defense NH for the calls to action, and everyone else who stood up for our Trans neighbors. Hate has no home in Nashua, full stop. I’m looking forward to updated guidelines from the The City of Nashua regarding usage of the Citizens’ Flag Pole to ensure that future flag requests are vetted more carefully.
It’s not “hate” to say that women’s sports should be for women, or that women have the right to have sports for women. If women can’t have sports for women then they can’t ever win at anything. It’s not “hate” to say that’s not a good outcome.
It’s probably the case that trans women are a bit stuck if hormones make them less strong than the average male, but it’s still also the case that it shouldn’t be women’s job to solve that problem. Maybe that’s just the price trans women have to pay, or maybe they can continue to play on men’s teams despite the disadvantage, or maybe they’ll decide sport just isn’t in their future anymore, but what they don’t get to do is trash women’s sport.
In newwokespeak, insufficiently loving is hating. If you insufficiently love trans women taking over women’s sports, then you hate trans women.
The converse, I suppose, is that actually hating is merely not quite loving. If people say they “hate” JK Rowling, or want to murder her, that’s not really hating, it’s just that they don’t quite love her.
This is why Etsy has now banned someone from selling items that say “I love JK Rowling,” but continues to permit people to sell items saying “Fuck JK Rowling.”
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8819877/Etsy-bans-sellers-heart-JK-Rowling-items-promoting-products-F-JK-Rowling-slogan.html
I do wonder, though: can I sell “Fuck Josh Silverman” tshirts on Etsy? And do I have to have them made in China like the rest of the fake-handmade crap on Etsy?
Fortunately, there are still places you can buy brilliant t-shirts while supporting good causes:
https://thefamousartistbirdyrose.com/collections/clothing/products/magdalen-t-shirt-vest
I bought one. I don’t know off-hand whether it was made in China but it definitely isn’t fake-handmade. Birdy has lately received a lot of abuse on social media and in real life from the usual TAs and some former friends so if anyone here uses Twitter, I’m sure she’d appreciate a follow.