Why does that female look like a 14 yo girl? Strangling for pleasure is dangerous and frankly crosses into levels of dominance play that are all kinds of fucked up. There have also been lots of examples of women talking about their experiences with partners no longer even asking if it they were into it, let alone setting boundaries first.
I suppose it’s no consolation that it appears the 14-year-old is being choked by the hand of an 8-year-old…
Could you imagine using this color guide from Facebook to decide if you’re killing someone or not? That doesn’t seem like a great idea (“I swear, Your Honor, I was following the Facebook color guide exactly…I don’t know what could have gone wrong!”).
It’s not just wrong. It’s not just getting off on pretending you’re killing her: It’s dangerous. People who want to believe anything about the below article changes if he gets a boner from doing it or she asks him to do it are mistaken.
Sounds crazy to me, but then we no longer have David Carradine around for this very reason.
There was a famous case in Japan that revolved around this:
Sada Abe (阿部 定 Abe Sada, May 28, 1905 – after 1971) was a Japanese woman, a geisha and prostitute, who erotically asphyxiated her lover, Kichizō Ishida (石田 吉蔵), on May 18, 1936, and then cut off his penis and testicles and carried them around with her in her kimono..
Skeletor – yeah, I’ve been hearing about that for a long time. Apparently it’s a thing for a guy to choke themselves while masturbating, putting a rope around their neck, etc. I hadn’t heard about it being erotic for a woman, though, so I can’t speak to that. I just can’t imagine.
I think Fifty Shades of Grey has a LOT to answer for, as does the libertarian strand of “feminism” (not feminism at all in my view) that saves its rage for putative “kink-shaming.” How dare you shame that woman by saying that man shouldn’t be choking her.
Lack of oxygen supposedly enhances orgasm. The Wiki article Skeletor posted says–
Author John Curra wrote, “The carotid arteries (on either side of the neck) carry oxygen-rich blood from the heart to the brain. When these are compressed, as in strangulation or hanging, the sudden loss of oxygen to the brain and the accumulation of carbon dioxide can increase feelings of giddiness, lightheadedness, and pleasure, all of which will heighten masturbatory sensations.”[2]
Author George Shuman describes the effect as such, “When the brain is deprived of oxygen, it induces a lucid, semi-hallucinogenic state called hypoxia. Combined with orgasm, the rush is said to be no less powerful than cocaine, and highly addictive
So, yeah, I can believe there are women who are into it, but it hardly seems worth the risk. People die all the time from it. According to a couple of exes, Carradine was an old hand (no pun intended) at “self-bondage.”
It also seems like a handy alibi for murderers, as is “rough sex”
generally.
(“I swear, Your Honor, I was following the Facebook color guide exactly…I don’t know what could have gone wrong!”)
Why does that female look like a 14 yo girl? Strangling for pleasure is dangerous and frankly crosses into levels of dominance play that are all kinds of fucked up. There have also been lots of examples of women talking about their experiences with partners no longer even asking if it they were into it, let alone setting boundaries first.
I suppose it’s no consolation that it appears the 14-year-old is being choked by the hand of an 8-year-old…
Could you imagine using this color guide from Facebook to decide if you’re killing someone or not? That doesn’t seem like a great idea (“I swear, Your Honor, I was following the Facebook color guide exactly…I don’t know what could have gone wrong!”).
So, for the purposes of working out how much you can safely strangle someone*, we assume that everyone one the planet is the exact same shade of pink?
*another one for my compendium of “sentences I never thought I’d write”
It’s not just wrong. It’s not just getting off on pretending you’re killing her: It’s dangerous. People who want to believe anything about the below article changes if he gets a boner from doing it or she asks him to do it are mistaken.
https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/strangulation-can-leave-long-lasting-injuries
This is apparently usually done to enhance the pleasure of the person being choked:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation
Sounds crazy to me, but then we no longer have David Carradine around for this very reason.
There was a famous case in Japan that revolved around this:
If she’d only had the color chart…
You can learn so much on the internet. Not always a good thing.
Skeletor – yeah, I’ve been hearing about that for a long time. Apparently it’s a thing for a guy to choke themselves while masturbating, putting a rope around their neck, etc. I hadn’t heard about it being erotic for a woman, though, so I can’t speak to that. I just can’t imagine.
I think Fifty Shades of Grey has a LOT to answer for, as does the libertarian strand of “feminism” (not feminism at all in my view) that saves its rage for putative “kink-shaming.” How dare you shame that woman by saying that man shouldn’t be choking her.
Lack of oxygen supposedly enhances orgasm. The Wiki article Skeletor posted says–
So, yeah, I can believe there are women who are into it, but it hardly seems worth the risk. People die all the time from it. According to a couple of exes, Carradine was an old hand (no pun intended) at “self-bondage.”
It also seems like a handy alibi for murderers, as is “rough sex”
generally.
sadlaugh
I like how it’s euphemised as “breathplay”.
Yes isn’t that a nice touch?