Ranking the leagues
I found this by accident – via a discussion of the annoying stereotypes on The Big Bang Theory that was in my Twitter feed. I follow about half the population of Earth on Twitter so it’s always very random what I see – this time I happened to see a discussion of the annoying stereotypes on The Big Bang Theory. One of the discussers linked to a ScienceBlogs post from 2007, about a trailer for the show, which hadn’t made its debut yet. What’s entertaining about it is that the post got Bill Prady’s attention – he’s the co-creator – and he put quite a lot of effort into explaining and defending it in comments.
Confession first: I agree that the show is full of annoying stereotypes and that it’s sexist as fuck, but at the same time for the first few years I found it pretty funny and somewhat touching. That always did baffle me, given the involvement of Chuck Lorre whose previous masterpiece was that dire thing with Charlie Sheen in it, which even an accidental second of while flicking through the channels would make me want to scream with anguish – it baffled me but so it was. Mind you, I thought the subordinate characters were awful, and that the subordinate women they added later were even worse, which is why I stopped watching even now and then. But with that background, along with longstanding interest in how popular culture shapes how we think about women, scientists, intellectuals, loudmouth real estate promoters, etc, I find Prady’s comments interesting.
He explains a little of the background, and gets a lot of responses, most of them challenging. (What makes the whole thing intriguing of course is that nobody in the conversation knew the show was going to be a hit. Most new tv shows bomb.)
Bill Prady: To clarify, there is no character based on Richard Feynman. His books were just one influence as we wrote. The greatest influence were my former colleagues from my previous career as a software engineer. People like Hawking and Wozniak and my friend Rebecca’s father who’s an astrophysicist at Harvard were an inspiration. My father-in-law who is one of the country’s leading pediatric rheumatologists was an inspiration.
I must say I have never before received such criticism for work that has not been seen by the critics.
My son is six months old. I hope you’ll give him a chance to grow up before you call him an offensive loud-mouthed crotchety drunk.
(By the way, were the paleontologists this upset when Ross on “Friends” was depicted as hapless and unlucky at love?)
A bunch more comments, then
Zuska:
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This whole long comment thread has made obvious to me once again just how very taboo it is for women to point out even the most minor manifestations of sexism in everyday life. We are meant to choke it down and keep moving, day after day, year after year, without a word of complaint, without even a sign that we are aware of its existence. Point it out and we get told: no, that’s not what you think it is, and why are you so upset, and besides you are focusing on the wrong thing, and you shouldn’t be talking about this, you should be talking about that, and you can’t hope to address this unless you address these 10 other things, and why are you concerned about that if you don’t care about these other things which are really much more important, and I really care about your issues but in this case you are wrong, and….blah blah blah.
Later again –
Prady:
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For the record, I’ll set down the chain of events that has led us here. Years ago, I was a software engineer. I had a few good friends who were brilliant — off the charts — but were painfully socially awkward. (And if you knew me at the time, you would have discovered that my skills weren’t much better.)
The best projects, I think, come when the writer is fond of his main characters and I was (and am) very fond of my friends. I decided to explore the theme that extreme intelligence doesn’t give a person an advantage in a social situation over average folk (and, some might say, is actually a disadvantage).
So I and my partner created a piece featuring characters based on the guys I knew (and me to a great extent). We then wondered what would happen if one of these guys fell hopeless[ly] in love with a woman who was “out of his league.” Now let’s be clear here: I am not saying that this woman is “out of the league of smart people,” I am saying that she’s out of this particular character’s league.
[It’s interesting that he doesn’t even notice what he’s saying, even when talking to this crowd. “Out of his league”? How? Because she’s hot. Not in other ways – she has a working stiff job, she’s from Nebraska, she has no money. She’s not stupid but she’s undereducated. The sole sense in which she’s out of his league is that she would win a gorgeosity contest. Anyway.]
Then we wondered what journey we might give this woman. We decided on an attractive woman who has always been objectified by men. Our feeling is that our character, who failed to learn the Cro-Magnon approach to women, is going to be the first man this woman encounters who actually treats her like a person, responds to her potential and ultimately allows her to shake off the self-image that’s been imposed on her sociologically.
[Says the guy who just objectified her himself in explaining her to hostile critics. Hmmm.]
Now remember, this is a sitcom — so this movement will happen very, very slowly. Remember how annoying the Frank Burns character was on M*A*S*H was after he got “nice”?
For most of the development process, the characters were software engineers like the people they were based on. Unfortunately, programming is a difficult occupation to photograph in a four-camera proscenium sitcom; the biggest challenge is how to light for film faces that are turned down and facing monitors. After deciding we didn’t want years of being yelled at by our director of photography (the guy who hangs the lights), we changed their profession. Because my partner and I are science geeks, we made them physicists.
A lot has been made in this thread over the fact that these men aren’t women, or that women are not depicted as scientists. My response is two-fold. First, when we go with them to their workplace we will see other scientists. They will be men and women, they will they will be of many ethnic persuasions (because we cast color-blind [which is why those men in that clip weren’t all white — go look again]). There are no women scientists in the first episode (and, consequentially in the clips that have been released because only the first episode has been shot). Second, this is a story about these three people. They happen to have the jobs and genders that they have. As I noted earlier, when ER fails to show male nurses, I don’t believe they are making the statement that men cannot be nurses, I simply believe they don’t have any characters that are male nurses (there was one once, I think).
I sign off wishing you all the best. I believe the battles you fight against are worth fighting. I firmly hope that my daughter grows up in a world where she believes that all career opportunities are open to her — including and especially science. I simply wish you had been more open to dialogue. I think this community would have been a great resource as we proceeded with the series.
Alas.
Interesting. Ten years on, I wish Bill Prady’s daughter were growing up in a world where men didn’t judge which “league” she was in by how hot she is and nothing else…but alas, I know she isn’t, and I know even her own father doesn’t get it.
Alas.
And even in a group of feminist women, when my intelligent educated female character gets portrayed as a ditz and a sexually frustrated spinster, the women in my theatre group, while agreeing it is not good, shrug and say, “Well, it got laughs. People liked it”. The problem is, that will always happen with commercial entertainment – it will always be about what people will pay for, and people will find any possible way to justify it.
“It got a laugh.”
But what else could have gotten a laugh? It has to be in the show in order for people to like it. If it’s not there, they can’t laugh at it or be moved by it or whatever.
Yes, and I know from another production that it was not required to get a laugh – there were many laughs written in the show without the sexism.
Even though I’m a physicist I’ve only seen a few YouTube clips. I think the parts I’ve seen are funny, trite, and stereotyping, but generally not interesting enough to want to see more than five minutes.
I don’t think there is much to defend or apologize for. Above the sexism, I’d say they miss a lot of science a great deal more. Americans are immature when it comes to sex and gender, but they are off the charts ignorant when it comes to science.
Have you seen this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3-hOigoxHs
It’s “The Adorkable Misogyny of The Big Bang Theory” by Pop Culture Detective.
This was the part that raised my eyebrows:
That’s right out of the Men’s Rights manifesto of grievances: women don’t give Nice Guys a chance! Prady is taking a lesson from the ur-text, Revenge of the Nerds, where the attractive blonde sorority leader discovers that the nerd is a talented lover because he is so attentive to her needs. Which she learns when… uh, when said nerd impersonates her boyfriend and has sex with her under false pretenses. After he and his friends install hidden cameras in her sorority house so as to watch her and her friends naked. Look … it was the 80s.
Oh, and sort of off topic, but … when did Frank Burns become a nice guy on MASH? I remember Burns as being a sniveling, cowardly weasel right up until they got rid of him and replaced him with Major Charles Winchester, who was a much better character. Burns was a cartoon; he had no redeeming qualities whatsoever. He wasn’t even a good surgeon. Winchester was a blowhard and a snob, but was almost as good a surgeon as he thought he was, and could take a joke at his own expense. Getting rid of Burns also allowed Houlihan to be more well-rounded and likeable, instead of a shrew who was carrying on an affair with the worst man in Korea.
I noticed that, too. Burns was a militant jingoist who was decidedly racist and misogynistic, and on top of that, he was a coward and a fool. He never got better; most of the other characters grew at least a bit from their experience, but he never changed.
There was a brief period where Frank Burns was less obnoxious than he had been for most of his arc. He went through three stages:
1: Margaret Houlihan’s weaker, nastier half.
2: Pining for Houlihan after she dumped him for Donald.
3: Finally started getting over Houlihan, then was written off the show.
Step 3 was less than a single half-season.
That this was the part of his arc that Prady remembers so clearly is kind of sad, in itself.
Oh, how original. Haven’t seen THAT before, have we?
TV loves to show us unattractive men with gorgeous women. They never, ever reverse the trope, and pair an ugly–or even just ordinary-looking–woman with a gorgeous man.
I have the same ambiguous rsponse to TBBT. Firstly yes, it’s annoyingly stereotyped and reductive but, at the same time, as an alpha-geek I do see things that correspond to my experience and that of my friends. If you’re a geek, and exist in geek culture (not necessarily academic geek, more geek fan-culture) somethings they get are absolutely spot on.
I never understood why Penny was supposedly “out of Leonard’s league”. Even ignoring the utterly problematic nature of “the league” and taking it at face value, she’s pretty, yes, but she’s also a failing actress, has appalling taste in men, and doesn’t really find herself until she starts hanging out with Bernadette (and to a lesser extent, Amy). I thought it was actually quite realistic that she would respond to Leonard – treats her well, he’s not bad looking (even as made up for the TV show), he’s very different to her usual men, and is very successful in his chosen field. His social awkwardness is only one of his traits. And social awkwardness, when allied with other attractive traits, isn’t necessarily game over.
You know who was out of Leonard’s “league”? Priya, Raj’s sister. Drop dead beautiful (as opposed to Penny’s very pretty), successful businesswoman, fully self-confident and in control of her life? No way. Especially as it was on of the TV land romances where we’re never actually shown why the characters enjoy being together. But that is not a problem specific to TBBT. Bernadette was originally very pretty but lacking in any concept of a sense of humour at all – though that part of her characterisation has been lost in favour of making her a clone of Howard’s mother.
Incidentally, Howard is not funny. He’s a very well observed character. I have, unfortunately, met many Howards within fandom. None of them were funny and, interestingly, the men find them as annoying, and almost as creepy, as the women do. The chances of a basically nice guy like Leonard – or even Sheldon – paling up with a Howard is pretty remote.
One big problem my daughter and I (two generations of geeky fangirls) both agree about is that the writers have no idea how to write geeky women. Again, not a problem specific to TTBT by any means. The clearest example of this is the early character of Leslie. Intellectually, succesfully, scientifically, she was the boys’ equal. She hung around, shagged Leonard once or twice the got wriiten out because the writers “couldn’t think what to do with her”. The boys get to geek out over mint comic books, action figures, tabletop gaming, conventions, TV series… they play they have toys. Couldn’t possibly write Leslie like that. The girls get stereotypical interests like shoes, makeup, facials etc. Only Amy has geeky interests and she is portrayed as weird even in Leonard, Howard and Raj’s eyes.
All my female friends do some of the things Leonard etc do. Plus, we do largely female specific stuff like write fanfiction. We play as much as the boys do. We also read as much science fiction and fantasy, argue about who would win in a fight between X and Y (though it’s more likely to be Crowley from Supernatural v Crowley from Good Omens rather than Batman v Superman. Though some of us have opinions about that too. We like geek boys like Leonard and Sheldon (though not Howard). They talk about stuff we’re interested in and have opinions on. But that is far too complex and real for a sitcom that, alas, only gets it right sometimes…
Screechy @ 6 – Ohhhhh yes – I’d forgotten all about Revenge of the Nerds. I’ve never seen it, so that’s why I forgot all about it, but I’ve read about it, so I should have remembered it and its relevance.
At any rate, it’s also kind of laughable to claim that Leonard is a Different kind of dude from all those Ordinary dudes who value Penny only for her hottitude, when his tongue is hanging out from the very first second he sees her – when that’s fundamental to the whole plot.
Steamshovelmama – yes to all of that.
In a way they kind of dealt with the “out of his league” question that time Penny’s father visited. He was played by Keith Carradine, too, so he was a very Reliable Narrator.
These comments are all great.
@Ophelia
I’d forgotten that episode. I lapsed after about season 4 or 5 when I felt there were less jokes being made around geekdom and science, and far more of the stereotypical let’s laugh at girls/hapless men/socially awkward people. Up to that point while those elements were always there, there was a strong strand of sympathy both for the boys and Penny. You were laughing with almost as often as at. Later the balance seemed to change – though I did appreciate the introduction of Bernadette and Amy to balance the genders out a bit, the writers just couldn’t seem to conceive of what a female geek might be like so things tipped to the frustrating – and ultimately very unfunny – grown up Women, little boy Men trope. I’m told it’s picked up again but I shall have to take a look.
They started using Sheldon as a figure of fun more and more often too. That was another example of the balance tipping.
Of course, within fannish circles there is a certain amusement to be had in watching the young white guys who have never been stereotyped before get highly worked up about it. Picture someone who looks a lot like Leonard clenching his fists, going all red in the face, and proclaiming loudly, “It’s nothing but geek minstrelsy, Dude!”
Yeah. The jokes have just gotten boring as well as sexist and stereotype-riddled. Also the actor who plays Bernadette’s decision to use a Minnie Mouse voice gets badly on my nerves.
Ophelia, yes, it is grating, however we could perhaps blame the director for Bernadette’s Minnie Mouse voice.
Bernadette, unlike the other characters, can be extremely vindictive.
TBBT is also very “white”.
We could except that I’ve seen her – I forget if it was in writing or on a chat show or what – say that it was her idea.
I will confirm Steamshovelmama’s “geek minstrelsy” experience–though the guy I saw making the argument called the show “nerd blackface”, instead.
Seriously, there weren’t enough facepalms.
I got fairly bored with the show very early–too many jokes were made by some conversation being brought to a halt with a geek reference–not an actual pun or allusion, but just someone mentioning something current in geek pop-culture, and the script pausing so the laugh-track could run.
You couldn’t make it up, could you?