Alone and in pain
Alone and in pain, Tulasi Shahi encountered a poisonous snake.
The Nepali woman had been banished to her uncle’s cowshed as per the “chaupadi” tradition, a centuries-old practice common among Hindus in the western regions of Nepal, though it was outlawed in 2005. Some communities there consider women “impure” while they are menstruating. These women are prohibited from daily activities and left isolated in sheds with straw floors for the duration of their periods.
The snake bit her on the head and leg.
Her family members tried to treat her with home remedies before taking Tulasi Shahi to a clinic near Dailekh, which did not have antivenin. Recent monsoon rains have flooded the area, making a trek to a distant hospital difficult.
She died seven hours later, CNN reported.
“If she was given proper treatment, she would have survived,” said Shahi’s cousin Kamala Shahi, a government health worker, according to the New York Times. “She died because of superstition.”
Superstition that takes the form of finding women creepily disgusting.
Shahi, whose age has been reported as 19 by CNN and 18 by the Times, is the latest Nepali woman to die from events related to the chaupadi practice, which has been condemned by the United Nations and global health organisations as cruel treatment of women, often in unsanitary conditions.
Roshani Tiruwa, a 15-year-old girl, died in December from smoke inhalation after she lit a fire in the hut where she was banished while menstruating.
Prime Minister Pushpa Kamal Dahal had called for an end to chaupadi a month earlier, after the death of a 21-year-old woman.
Chaupadi has survived global outcry. A 2015 US State Department report on human rights in Nepal, citing a government survey from 2010, found that 50 per cent of women ages 15 to 49 in the midwestern and far-western regions of the country practice chaupadi. One in five women in the country as a whole reported the practice.
All because of the stuff that provides nutrition to a fetus if the woman gets pregnant.
The Times of India reported on a 2011 survey that found that barely 1 in 10 women in India used sanitary pads during their periods, while others used alternatives such as ashes and sand.
The survey found that nearly 1 in 4 Indian women dropped out of school after they began to menstruate.
H/t Rob
I wish every man who feels that women menstruating somehow makes them untouchable would get his wish to be far, far away from them. A lunar colony, perhaps, just for these sad little fellows with their narrow, narrow minds, where they will never encounter another woman on her period again.
And then, every day, I would want a shuttle-full of used tampons and pads dumped in through an airlock in the ceiling; they’ll just have to figure out how to clean up all that impure material themselves.
It seems the one thing that all religions can agree on is that women are dirty, disposable, useful only for pleasing men and making sons (along with the occasional daughter, if it’s unavoidable).
Interactional theocracy really is the worst.
I’ve found a few charities online that claim to help support women and girls in the developing world access sanitary products but I’m aware that not all charities are created equal and none of the ones I found have been around long enough to merit a Charity Navigator rating. Does anyone have any experience/recommendations? I’d really like to donate but only to an organization that is legitimately helping.
Claire, I’ve reached out to a reliable, secular, NZ Charity that works in Nepal to see if they do any work in this area. Will update if/when I get a response.
Many people consider solitary confinement to be cruel and unusual punishment. Humans being the social creatures that we are.
It’s imposed on women for being women.
Imposed on women and young girls, for several days every month. It just could hardly be any suckier.
Claire (and anyone else interested), I finally got a response as below…
So, there are at least two reliable options:
The Himalayan Trust (https://himalayantrust.org/donate/) – a NZ registered charity
or
WaterAidAmerica (http://www.wateraidamerica.org/) – a US registered charity (there are WaterAid organisations for other countries as well).
NZ has a strong history of association with the communities around Everest especially (thanks to Sir Ed Hillary) and the Himalayan Trust is highly regarded and in fact acts as a conduit for NZ Government aid to the region.
@Rob Thank you so much – that is really helpful.