Most female comics get that within their first week
A year ago the CBC told us about a very bad man, and a better one:
Saskatchewan-born comedian Brent Butt is rushing to support comedian Jen Grant after she was sexually harassed during a set at a corporate event.
“I have been a standup comedian for 28 years and not once have I been heckled with sexual threats. I also don’t know of any other male comics who have been sexually threatened,” his Twitter statement read in part.
Grant, who is originally from Ottawa and now lives in Toronto, had been hired to do a 45-minute corporate set in a country club in suburban Toronto. According to Grant, within three minutes of taking the stage, the heckling began.
“I am interrupted by a male … saying to me, ‘There’s a 51 per cent chance that my buddy here will have sex with you. and I will take the other 49 per cent,'” she said in a blog post.
It was a corporate gig, so she couldn’t respond the way she would at a club; the rules are different. So he went on and on and on.
“‘Oh, the things I would do to you,'” Grant quoted the man as saying, in what she called a “rapey” voice.
“It’s hard to put into words how I felt at that moment. Scared. Objectified. Threatened. Invalidated,” she said.
Grant walked off the stage in tears, something she said she had never done in 16 years as a comedian.
That’s nice, isn’t it? She was doing her work, and that guy stopped her doing it, by reducing her to the hole between her legs. “You don’t have any talent, or anything to say; you’re not smart or funny or interesting; you’re just a hole.”
I’ve been a stand-up comedian for 28 years, and NOT ONCE have I been ‘heckled’ with sexual threats. I also don’t know of any other male comics who have been sexually threatened. Yet most female comics get that within their first week. A lot of them hear it on Day 1.
And then again, and again, and over and over, during their entire career. But, heaven forbid, if a female comic ever finally gets fed up with this repetitive, vile, hostile garbage, there’s always some dim asshole who’s quick to tell her she’s being ‘too sensitive’. Well guess what, you dim asshole, she’s not being too sensitive.
You’re being a piece of shit.
Try not being a piece of shit for a while, and I bet that’ll REALLY cut down on the amount of rampant sensitivity you have to tolerate.
That. We’re not being “too sensitive” by responding to repetitive, vile, hostile garbage. We’re not.
The link to her blog post in the CBC article is dead; the post is here:
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/jen-grant/jen-grant-harassed_b_7416984.html