It’s empowering to brush your teeth
No, it’s not “empowering” in the 21st century US for women to post selfies of themselves. The default situation isn’t that women aren’t allowed to post selfies of themselves. The default situation isn’t that they’re locked up in harems with no phones to take selfies with and no internet to share the selfies with. Women aren’t lying on their backs thrashing their arms and legs helplessly like June bugs.
The “power” to post selfies on the internet isn’t in and of itself a power that will get women anywhere. Women in the US aren’t in such a helpless, restricted, spied on, imprisoned state that the ability to post a selfie is a triumphant access to power and freedom. It’s ludicrous to say it is.
Granted for a minority of women it can be – women in Quiverfull or right-wing Muslim families, who really are restricted and spied on. But for most women, the “power” to post selfies is like the “power” to go to Safeway for orange juice. It’s trivial, and it’s rather insulting to call it “empowering.”
I guess I could look at that as reason for optimism. Feminism is very far from having won the battle, but at least we’re not in such a pathetic state that being able to post selfies qualifies as genuine empowerment. You might as well tell us it’s empowering to be able to put our own shoes on.
I would agree that the act of taking/posting a selfie is not empowering, in and of itself–but it can be taken as evidence of empowerment, in some circumstances. Specifically, I’m thinking of Imgur and Reddit, where there’s a whole host of mostly men who are dedicated to trashing any woman who dares to post a selfie–after all, this is her acting on her own, rather than having a creepshot taken by a guy who has deemed her sufficiently ‘hot’ for such treatment. Facing that storm of criticism head-on by posting into a hostile environment is an act of defiance.