Strident and shrill
A note or two on Night Waves.
I think the most striking thing about both Bunting and Khan is the callous frivolity of their claims. This is probably inevitable when religious apologists are invited to defend religions from charges of injustice and cruelty – but then that’s what’s wrong with religious apologetics, isn’t it.
Bunting for instance started by saying, in a tone of well-feigned bewilderment, that she just really didn’t quite understand what I was talking about, because it seemed to her that in any religious tradition there is interpretation, and ‘the way the way Christian teaching has changed over two thousand years is enormous and it continues to change.’ But she must know perfectly well – how could she not? – that ‘Christian teaching’ hasn’t changed so thoroughly that it has managed to catch up to secular liberal thinking on human rights or women’s rights or gay rights. She must know perfectly well that Catholic bishops are currently insisting precisely on the difference between ‘Church teachings’ and gay rights and demanding that the former be allowed to trump the latter – so what does she mean by saying she doesn’t understand what I’m talking about? I don’t think she means anything, I think she’s just mouthing. And that’s what I mean by callous frivolity. She shouldn’t do that – she should be honest about the subject. This isn’t a game, this is stuff that fucks up people’s lives.
Khan was just as frivolous, talking dismissively about ‘what we call in the Muslim community call “Sheikh google”‘ – which apparently means something like ‘track down news items about various incidents of religious brutality around the world.’ Well look – the incidents are there – they’re real – they happen to real people – so what does it mean to shrug them off in that contemptuous way? Khan may have even had that thought herself, because she promptly added that we’d collected a lot of stuff, but then on third thought she said it was nothing new. No, it’s not new, we never said it was new; the point is not its novelty but that it happens at all. Khan said nothing whatsoever to palliate that – which is not surprising, because what could palliate it? In fact later she said something quite remarkable about ‘the things that aren’t quite working, the violence…’ Ah yes, the violence, which is ‘things not quite working.’
She also talked about the upside of patriarchy, and how if you redefine patriarchy so that it doesn’t mean patriarchy then it’s quite a good thing; she talked about tribes in Indonesia that are an example of matriarchy in Islam; she talked about Eurocentrism. Bunting agreed that there is patriarchy but then shouted that to go from that to the accusation that God hates women is an absurd illogical jump and why not ask do men hate women and how daft that is, there are lots of nice men, it’s a banal argument. Well yes it is a banal argument but it’s not our argument so that takes care of that anyway. Then by way of flourish she interrupted me to tell me the tone of the book is strident and shrill. I would call it, rather, indignant, or heated, or impassioned, in places. That’s because the stuff we talk about is bad – cruel, oppressive, unjust; bad. It’s not something to be callously frivolous about. It’s not something to shrug off with palaver about the Anglican church ordinating women or little pockets of Islamic matriarchy. It’s more serious than that.
OB,
This is probably impractical or plain daft, but have you ever thought of doing a speaking/ book signing tour? Preferably of the UK.
Maybe next year’s Hay-on-Wye and a few regional spots? I don’t know if it would be financially rewarding, but properly managed you could certainly fill the 350 seat auditorium in my small market town, and any of dozens of others.
http://www.queenshall.co.uk/about-us/
OK, it helps that the local book-shop owner is a big fan, but there are people who arrange these things, find the right venues.
Of course, you may be averse to public speaking, but I thought, when I heard your dry, slightly sardonic, responses to the twittering going on around you, that we could do with more of this in live debate.
Well, if it’s a tone issue, maybe your next book can be all about dating for the 21st-century atheist girl. Hip! Fun! Kicky! Pink! Remember, girls, stay away from those Pentecostals! They may seem exotic, but the patriarchy is baked in! (Actually, there was a time when I could have used that advice. But let us gently pass over that…)
Madders? This was the “opposition” they set you up with in a debate? Clearly the people at Nightwaves didn’t think any respectable intellectual – or for that matter, anyone with an actual intellect – could possibly object to anything in DGHW. Unsurprisingly, they’re right about that.
About the book tour thing, OB. When I was in N.Y., I talked to my sister who is a librarian in Queens about your book. They have lots of authors go speak there, and she expressed an interest in your book and in having you speak, although, warning, she said that she would have to invite a speaker for the “God doesn’t hate women” crowd for balance. That has more to do with protecting her job than with where her sympathies lie. So if you decide to do a book tour, let me know.
I had similar thoughts about “callous frivolity” when Bunting alluded to the “fascinating tension” in Christianity between the Madonna and Magadelene roles for women. It’s fascinating in a work of fiction, but for real women who have to deal with the demands to be as pure as the Virgin Mary it can be profoundly oppressive. There’s a direct line between the Marian ideal and the Magdalene asylums of Ireland.
Callous frivolity is an excellent descriptor. The two of them did not distinguish themselves. It could have been such an interesting conversation.
I parsed Khan’s phrase as “Sheik Google.” Google it, and several uses come up. As in “Sheik Google does a lot of the indoctrination.” Your interpretation is correct, of course.
They were so lame to bring up examples w/o copping to the evil bad shit that the rest of us know about. . . They must be used to audiences swallowing the verbiage w/o asking any interesting questions.
Chuckleheaded gasbags, the two of them.
Does God hate women?
In the light of history, ‘religion’ and ‘hatred’ are two words that sit well together.
Like a language, a religion only exists as it functions. That is, in the real world, as distinct from the heads of individual supporters like Khan and Bunting.
Christian righteousness and hatred got mixed up with outrages in the Jim Crow south of the US, but the Islamic variant is something else again.
http://www.smh.com.au/world/indonesia-unwilling-to-tackle-legacy-of-massacres-20090612-c63h.html
Yeah I wondered if it was Sheik google…
Thanks amos! I will. (I don’t think a tour is hugely likely – I think that’s for bigger books.)
Don (I was thinking I’d answered you earlier) – sure, I’ve thought of it, but I think that’s something the publisher does, and I don’t think Continuum runs to that kind of thing. I don’t mind public speaking when I have something worth talking about (such as theocratic misogyny).
Ah, it is Sheikh google – except that makes no sense in relation to DGHW. It apparently refers to disaffected yoof trawling the internet for fatwas. What’s that got to do with anything?! Who knows.
OB — Any chance of a reading here in town?
Ahem ..
The place of women in Abrahamic religions:
“She was quite sure there had been female disciple(s) because “Our lord is always shown wearing white, and someone must have seen to it that he always had a clean robe.”
Thank you Terry Pratchett.
Somehow, I don’t think the deranged Bunting would appeciate that one?
Cam…I guess if anyone asks me.
Ok, finally got a chance to listen today. Most appropriately, today I also found this:
http://canterburyatheists.blogspot.com/2009/06/women-in-bible.html
Says it all.