How to Make Bloody-Minded Women
The last women’s college in Oxford has just voted to remain a single-sex college. I’m always interested in these campaigns to keep women’s schools single sex, and the idea (which I tend to believe) that single sex education is good for girls and bad for boys. I went to a single sex school myself, one that combined with a boy’s school the year after I graduated. I regretted it at the time but later decided I’d been lucky. If nothing else, I derived the benefit (at least I think I did) that it never crossed my mind for an instant that women were supposed to shut up and let men do the talking. So when I went to a double-sex university I talked and argued with the best of them, if not more. Maybe I would have anyway, not being a notably compliant person; but I wonder.
It is a difficult question. The whole issue of whether women do better when they’ve had a chance to build up some blithe, unaware confidence in a boy-free zone, or whether that notion merely perpetuates the idea that women are so fragile and malleable and pathetic that they have to live in a bubble to survive at all. Val McDermid chooses the first option in this article by a graduate of St. Hilda’s from last year:
I think the single-sex environment allowed women to flourish in a way that is much harder for them in a male-dominated college. It meant that, when we emerged into the world of work, we had a bedrock of self-confidence that made it far easier for us to compete on the unequal terms we found there.
Former student Katherine Wheatley is definite: ‘Women benefit from a single-sex education, whereas men benefit from a mixed one,’ she says, and that this ‘is borne out by the results at GCSE and A-levels year on year.’ I think it’s probably true, I’m glad St. Hilda’s stayed single-sex, and yet, and yet…I also wish women didn’t need special enclaves in order to flourish. But then I wish a lot of things, as we all do. If wishes were horses.
“‘is borne out by the results at GCSE and A-levels year on year.'”
Possibly true, but there is a general achievement gap in favour of women at GCSE and A-Level (which, I think, don’t exist as a unified exam any longer).
Also, there’s an interesting philosophical question about identity and so on here. If males benefit from mixed-sex education, then it isn’t immediately clear why this isn’t as significant an argument for mixed schooling as the fact that females benefit from single sexed schooling is an argument for single sex schools…
I know, I know. It is quite an interesting conundrum, one I’ve been pondering for years. Whether to do what (may be) best for girls or what’s best for boys. But then I decided Oh the hell with the boys. That’s their problem.